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TomSudz
09-26-2009, 06:26
I don't remember seeing this before, so if it was already posted I'm sorry for the repeat.



http://www.stltoday.com/stltoday/news/st....CE?OpenDocument

The original email was sent to Sheriff Glenn Boyer on Thursday, August 27. Below is the citizen's email followed by Sheriff Boyer's response.


I tried to call you earlier this morning, but was unable to obtain your extension from the voice mail system as I was not sure of your first name or correct spelling of your last.

I was inadvertently in this procession as I was leaving work on 270 from Creve Coeur and proceeding on Hwy. 30 West. I have some issues and complaints. I called the Sheriff's office last night, but the officer in charge would not speak with me. His name was Corp. Curtis. I am in no way complaining about your officers. I, however, was not treated very fairly when I called last evening because I wanted a ticket/complaint/or at least a slap on wrist for the people involved. Let me explain:
1) This procession should never have been held during rush hour traffic! Hwy. 270 is dangerous and people drive way too fast and there is too much traffic. This soldier's certainly would not have want his family hurt on the interstate taking him to Cedar Hill. People were dead-stopping on the interstate even though the procession was in the far right lane, the other three lanes just stopped. There were many near accidents and possibly were after I drove through. I was in the 2nd to left lane, no way obstructing the funeral procession.
2) I exited off on Gravois (30 W), far right lane. Your police officers went in the left lane to stop any additional on-coming traffic so the procession could exit off 270 into the LEFT lane of 30. Again, I was in the right lane. The St. Louis County officer stopped and turned around at Weber Hill to return on 270 after the procession passed.
3) The road was not closed. (Only for president as far as I know.) Again, the road was not closed. Your officers only had the left lane blocked/closed for the funeral. All other traffic by MO law can proceed as long as they do not interfere (weave in and out )with funeral procession.
Let me say, that I did not know what was happening. I knew the did not have Kennedy coming to STL, at least not yesterday. I was at work all day. No news. Nothing reported on the traffic on the radio driving home.
Anyway, two of these dirty, nasty, renegade, who knows what motorcycle men that were escorting the procession proceeded to stop in front of me in the right lane on Gravois. I had to stop in the middle of an intersection. They proceeded to scream and yell at me about respecting this soldier, etc. One of them climbed off his motorcycle and came over to me and stuck his head in my car continuing to scream at me. I asked him what this was for and he told me I needed to stop as the officers had the road blocked and show some dang respect. #1, the road was not blocked, the funeral was in the other lane. #2, I am proud of our country and sorry for the family, but they had no idea where I was going or anything else. I could have a child at day-care, I could have been sick and racing to the bathroom, I could have a sick parent waiting for me, etc., etc.
#3, They are not law enforcement and had no right to stop in the lane on Gravois and they had no right to scream at me and intimidate and threaten me. If I would have had my pepper spray, I would have used it on this nasty man! He is just a big hoo ha that is not even related to this soldier. The other man did not get off his scooter, but was along side of my passenger window screaming.
I left an abusive husband 1 1/2 years ago and I did not need this intimidation. I was livid and shaking!!
My son is a deputy sheriff in another MO county. I respect police officers. It was not their fault as they were busy with traffic, but I called to make them aware of what was going on during this thing. The St. Louis County officer saw it but of course he was out of jurisdiction.
However, I called last night and your office asked me if I knew about this soldier. Again, I am sorry about him, but I am a taxpayer. I got a speeding ticket a few months ago and paid the fine. I do not deserve to be treated like this. I wanted to let the officer know how these men were acting. Also, they were driving into the turnarounds on Hwy. 30 and then back onto the road. the funeral was much further ahead. One of them nearly got hit by me and other people almost hit him and another as well. I wanted to lodge a complaint about them why they were still there, but no one in your office would take any information or do anything.
This was not a military funeral, even though it was a soldier. There were not military vehicles. It was a funeral and the road was not closed, the lane was closed, I was in the other lane and again, these nasty men had no right to do this and I would have liked them to get a ticket!
I am sorry for the soldier and his family but you cannot let these motorcycle renegades do this. They could have caused several accidents and I really wanted them arrested. If they had any respect for the soldier they would have dressed better and not looked and acted so scuzzy.

Thank you.

From:
Glenn Boyer/JEFFCO
Date: 08/31/2009 02:05 PM

Subject: Re: Fw: Re: Funeral Procession - Yesterday p.m.

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Dear XXXXX:

Yes, you do deserve a response and I am willing to give you one.

I would like to say that I am sorry for the inconvenience we caused you during the funeral procession of Sergeant 1st Class William B. Woods, but I cannot do so. I would ask instead that you take a moment of your time to take into consideration the scope of the event. Your very right to complain was the reason Sgt. Woods fought for his country and ultimately gave his life; thus making the ultimate sacrifice for you and your family.

Let me introduce you to him. After high school, Sergeant Woods entered the Marine Corps. After his contract was up, he joined the Army, where he became a Green Beret. He comes from a long line of military members in his family. His Uncle is a Vietnam Veteran and two of his grandfathers were World War II Veterans. His job in the Army was one of the most dangerous jobs - he was a sniper looking for the bad guys to stop before they killed or injured one of our soldiers. He has numerous decorations to include the Bronze Star and the Purple Heart.

He grew up in Catawissa and was best known by his middle name, Brian. He enjoyed the outdoors, playing sports, and skydiving. He had a wife, Elizabeth, and two daughters, whom he loved dearly. He was a soft-spoken, level-headed young man who was proud to serve his country no matter what the risk. Now, I did not know him, but I wish I did. I am quoting from newspaper articles written about him.

At the young age of 31, he was shot during an engagement with Taliban forces in Ghanzi , Afghanistan . He died of his wounds in Germany on August 16, with his family by his side. He did not choose the time of his death, nor did he choose the time his remains would be brought back to his home in Catawissa. He just did his duty. He was quite a young man.

While you were being inconvenienced in your car on your way home, there were soldiers just like Sergeant Woods carrying 100+ pounds of equipment in 120 degree heat, up some mountain or in the middle of some desert. They will shower out of a helmet liner if they get the chance. They will eat a cold meal of MRE's; something most people would consider garbage. They cannot text their family or friends, or go to McDonalds, or watch TV. They can only continue the mission and look out after the guy to the left and right of them. They don't complain because they know they volunteered. The only thing they ask is that we do not forget the sacrifices they have made.

One of the dirty "big hoo ha" bikers, as you call them, was Brian's uncle, a Vietnam Veteran, like myself. We were not treated with a homecoming. We were spit on and called baby killers by a misguided public. Brian's uncle was giving him the respect that he, himself, never received when he came back and I, for one, am proud of him for doing so.

You say that your brother is a deputy in another Missouri county. I am sure he would be proud to escort the casket of a fallen solder, the same as he would that of a fallen officer. I am also sure he would not agree with your complaint about being inconvenienced.

My mother recently passed away. She was a World War II Veteran, serving the U.S. Army. She would say, maybe you should pick up Sergeant Woods' ruck sack and carry on where he left off. Then you could see first hand what it really is to be inconvenienced.

Per your request, I will forward your complaint to the Prosecuting Attorney's Office for his review. It is my personal opinion that your complaint is self-serving and without merit.

Sheriff Oliver "Glenn" Boyer

Embalmer
09-26-2009, 07:02
some people....

dave
09-26-2009, 08:40
IF what the person said about the behavior of the bikers (uncle or not) is true the Sheriff is off base in defending them. Funeral or not they have no police authority and yelling at the person is uncalled for. IF the complaint was CORRECT, they acted and looked like scum-bags! But I do not think any charges would stick. The Sgt didn't fight and die so his uncles (or anyone else) could act that way.

JB White
09-26-2009, 09:17
What the person lacks is common sense and there's no law against that. Some things happen in life that, while maybe not exactly legal, are better off just tolerated. Put up with the minor inconvenience and get on with things.

Perhaps living only a few hundred yards away from a cemetary main entrance and having "tolerated" my share of special funeral processions has biased my opinion on the matter. Perhaps being retired and not having to be anywhere in any particular hurry has influenced my attitude as well.

Prior to all that, living in Outlaw country has also taught me that one doesn't go whinning at bikers while on a run. participating in a funeral, or trying to cut through a "Toys for Tots" ride etc. simply because my light has turned green. Let them do their thing and they usually offer the courtesy of passing when the time is right.

Kudos to the Sheriff for trying to calm things at a local level.

John Sukey
09-26-2009, 09:40
Dave, did you note that the "biker" who yelled at the woman was the UNCLE of the soldier? In other words it was a member of HIS FAMILY he was escorting to the cemetary! If he had been wearing a suit and tie and had stepped out a car, would you have had the same opinion about his conduct?

talucah
09-26-2009, 09:55
Whats her complant, everyone stops for a funeral procession.
Bob

rider
09-26-2009, 10:16
Quite often, the "Bikers" at military funerals are Patriot Guard Riders.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Patriot_Guard_Riders

Tired Retired
09-26-2009, 10:46
ok, I guess I'm going to have to put on my asbestos suit for this, but....

I am a retired military officer and a former civilian law enforcement officer. I, along with alot of my friends/fellow servicemembers, have done the "all expense paid vacation" in some very unfriendly territory. Among other "duties" while in the gereal area, I have proudly stood at attention while the caskets of our fallen have been slowly driven down "Disney Blvd" in Bagram Air Field while every available soldier, Sailor, airman and Marine stood proudly (and reflectively) at attention and saluted. I have ..... well, you get the point....

While the "uncle" may have felt that the complainant was disrespectful toward the fallen military member, both the "uncle's" and the sheriff's behavior are totally out of line. First, riding escort (which is really a cool respectful thing to do) does not mean traffic control. There are both laws AND major liability for that. Had the "uncle" caused an accident (which was reported to have been close to happening), he would have been charged criminally AND been sued for his responsibility. Additionally, the local jurisdiction (I assume the sheriff) was suppose to be doing that. Yes, I KNOW with all my "blue" heart that surrounding jurisdictions and the State would have provided extra officers if volunteers were asked - had I worked there I would have jumped at the chance. In my opinion, the sacrific of the Sgt 1st Class was tainted by the disrespectful behavior of the "uncle". Let's see, you fight and die for US citizens who are then yelled at and scared by the behavior of others in my name? Hmmmm, not exactly how I would have wanted to be remembered if I had fallen.

The sheriff is wrong for not respecting the points that the complaintant made. He attempted to justify his choice of allowing the civilian uncle to conduct traffic control with no legal authority and then justify the uncle's behavior (for which he would have been arrested if it happened anywhere else). Makes me wonder how that sheriff handles his internal affairs complaints. Let's see, he and the uncle were spit on when they came back (like my family and friends were in the 60's-70's) and it's justifies the uncle verbally abusing a US citizen who probably wasnt old enough to know how to spit back in the 60's....

Now I agree that the "inconvenience" issue should be a non-issue... You stop for funerals were I come from. But I think the real reason that the complainant is pushing so hard is the behavior of the the uncle. It was just plain out of line. I also admit that it seems that the complainant maybe making a judgement call about the character of the "biker" solely on his appearance. She should not even comment on the "biker's" look, but should have kept solely to the problems with his actions and behavior. Undoubtedly his appearance contributed to the "fear factor" of her experience, but she needs to seperate behavior from lifestyle choices.... I am faulting him for his actions and the sheriff for his "justification"...

I and other veterans/retirees I know would NEVER stand for this type if behavior in our name. If this complantant is reporting it correctly, it should be investigated and appropriate charges filed. I did not bury fellow service members in the name of freedom so that "authority" could abuse citizens - that is exactly what we were (are) fighting against!!!!!!

Oh, and while I am on the soap box.... I would gladly eat cold MRE's and dig that damn sand out of my ears again if it meant keeping my family, friends and neighbors safe at home and the government from becoming abusive.



OK, flame away....

dave
09-26-2009, 11:53
Much better said then my humble atempt, Tired! And to John (with due respect) I did mention an uncle (or not). And my opinion on his CONDUCT would have been the same if in a suit and tie. However I would have thought a little better of him if he had been. He was not being too respectful going to a funeral dressed like that. I have more then one biker friend, (including my brother-in-law, 2 tours in Nam with the 173rd ABB, retired CSM, 29 years) and I doubt any of them would go to a relitive's funeral in "biker attire".

lonewoolf
09-26-2009, 09:14
I would like to give my 2 cents...I agree 100% with Tired on the behavior issues, but I must disagree with Dave on the clothing issue. I am a Viet Nam Vet, and a Patriot Rider in NH. I have done several escorts and flag lines, and when I ride...as do all other riders, we wear our biker clothing. This consists of boots, leathers, and helments....all for safety and protecting. We are not trying to look dirty and grubby, or like "bikers" !!! My leather cost more than my suit....which I wear when not riding.

McLovin
09-27-2009, 05:22
I guess some people have a hard time with common courtesy and respect so they use "the law" as an excuse for their rudeness. If I were to speculate that female is alone and expects the government to keep her safe and provide for her, I would also speculate that what she called yelling was simple communication in a language that she could understand. I doubt she did understand as she considered that abusive behavior and needed her surrogate to protect her from that kind of behavior. I am glad she paid her speeding fine, but if she cant show common courtesy to the fallen then she is a flaming hunk of crap. If you cant show enough respect to stop and let any funeral procession pass, shoot me an email and when you or one of your loved ones pass I can be one of those who has to go to the bathroom "real bad" or has to pick up my kids from daycare to interrupt the grieving process for your family.

dave
09-27-2009, 07:00
You, Sir, are miss-inturperting the whole incident. She was in the left lane, funeral was in right lane. IN THIS STATE you are alowed to pass such a porcesion. Only when you are all in the same lane can you not pass. Quit using this brave service man's funeral for an excuse for BAD behavior.

dave
09-27-2009, 07:04
lonewolf---I am speaking of the soldiers Uncle, a relitive, not unrelated bike mounted escorts.

TomSudz
09-27-2009, 07:36
I don't think the sheriff is saying that one of the guys doing the yelling was the uncle, I think he's just pointing out that one of the escort riders in the procession was an uncle.

McLovin
09-27-2009, 08:02
You, Sir, are miss-inturperting the whole incident. She was in the left lane, funeral was in right lane. IN THIS STATE you are alowed to pass such a porcesion. Only when you are all in the same lane can you not pass. Quit using this brave service man's funeral for an excuse for BAD behavior.

I don't care what lane you are in, what is her time worth that she can't show respect to her fellow man? By "man" I mean mankind not only the male version of homo sapiens for those who might be PC. As far as the law goes I really don't care about the law either when it comes into conflict with my values. I would be that individual blocking traffic in the left lane if I came upon a funeral procession because I consider it rude to pass a funeral procession, unless I need to go pee really bad.