Used to happen to me...
,,, all the time. I was bitten, beaten, and made to bleed on numerous occaisions. Turns out one of the women I had slept with told her friends about it and they all had to find out if they would all pass out after I made love to them as she did. I refused of course and when I did ... well they insisted and that's why it happened.
How come it is always too something... Too hot, too cold, too soon, too late, too much, too little, too deep, too shallow, but always "too" something.